We spoke about how to make sure that the advice you are getting is unbiased:
- If the person would benefit from your decision then you should watch out. Some situations are pretty obvious, e.g., a salesman. But others less so. For example, I would benefit from great families joining my kids school, so anyone getting advice from me about schools needs to consider that.
- If the person doesn't provide a balanced view, with pros and cons, but only gives your pros (or cons) that is a Red flag.
- If they don't have real experience in the subject matter. How well do they really understand the issues? I mentioned that how confident and authoritative someone sounds is not correlated that how knowledgeable he is. Yet, unfortunately, we tend to assume it is. Don't let those who sound the most confident about their opinions influence you more than others.
- Try to get a large enough sample of opinions.
- Try to find people who share your values and points of view.