Paco spoke to us about people who postpone their decision to "come out of the closet". Most of them discover that things don't turn out as bad as they feared and that the delay was the worst part of all. I observed that this can be generalized to all tough decisions, such as leaving a job or breaking up with someone. While the time immediately following the event is usually very tough, things quickly get better (much faster and much better than people anticipate). And most people look back at these events and regret not making these tough decisions sooner. Just do it!